Do Not Ask for Cash
If you want to get value from a wealthy mentor, never ask him or her money. Most do not even know how to do that. They do not touch money (cheques, etc) for days as they have people that do those things for them. But position yourself as someone who can help fix a friction in the business empire.
Because the empire is humongous, there is always something to be done. By doing that work, you would make money. Most wealthy people do not give cash; they provide opportunities. Remember a politician with stolen wealth is not a wealthy person [in my definition]. Typically, for most, give them five years and they are dry. Here, I am writing about business-people who built wealth with sweat and enormous personal sacrifices.
Do not embarrass them with your cash appeal. They would not like that. But ask them for opportunities to “help” their businesses. They typically like to hear such pitches. And when they give you that opportunity, be excellent. They want the best and they demand nothing less. If you are not good, most would just pay you and you are off.
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But if you excel, it becomes a flowing river with no bounds. Yes, in seasons and out of seasons, you would not lack.
That has always been the case, though some people with little or no awareness always fall into the trap of asking for money; perhaps with the thinking that the wealthy fella has 'excess', and therefore wouldn't mind doling out some.
It has a lot to with character and self esteem, coupled with mindset of wanting to give something first, no matter how little; before receiving bountifully.
Always look at how you could be useful to the big guy, rather than seeking instant gratification; with your phone number subsequently deleted from the contact list.