Today, I want to share something that has been trending on social media lately. You guessed it, it's the controversial advice that BBNaija star Venita gave to women recently.
If you don't know who Venita is, she is a former housemate of the popular reality TV show Big Brother Naija. She is also an actress, model and entrepreneur. She has two beautiful kids, and she is currently divorced from her ex-husband.
She was married to Terna Tarka for 4 years. She stated in a May interview with Punch in 2021 that leaving her husband was one of the toughest decisions she had made and that she was grateful for her support system.
Venita recently shared her opinion on marriage and relationships. She said that women should not rush into marriage before they are 28 years old. She said that women should focus on their careers, education and personal growth before settling down with a man.
Venita has really emphasized the importance of enjoying one's youth and gaining diverse life experiences before getting married.
She stated: "Don't marry young o! Don't go and do 'I'm doing high school sweetheart. We die here.' Just be young! Enjoy your life. When you're tired, get married."
The mother of two highlighted her position, particularly for her daughter, saying, "If my daughter approaches me, as long as she's not, I swear to God, not up to 28, we can rock with it. Anything below 28, please no." According to Venita, ladies ought to enjoy their youth before getting tied down by marriage. Venita said this during an interview.
She also said that women should not be pressured by society or family to get married at a young age. She said that women should be independent and self-reliant before they commit to a lifelong partnership. She said that marriage is not a bed of roses and that women should be prepared for the challenges and sacrifices that come with it.
The reality star Venita has emphasized the need for individuals to discover themselves fully before committing to marriage. She acknowledged that while some people might be mature at a younger age, it's crucial to explore various aspects of life to make informed decisions about marriage.
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"Don't get me wrong, there are people who are mature, oh. But you need to try different things in life, different experiences, to be sure of okay, I want to be stuck here. Because it's handcuff, you're there," Venita explained.
Sharing her own experience, Venita, who is legally divorced, provided insight into the challenges of long-term commitment. She suggested that couples should consider separate yet connected rooms, to help maintain independence and avoid potential conflicts.
Venita's advice has sparked a lot of reactions from people online. Some people agree with her and say that she is speaking from experience and wisdom. They say that Venita is empowering women to make their own choices and live their best lives.
Others disagree with her and say that she is misleading women and discouraging them from getting married. They say that Venita is bitter and unhappy because of her failed marriage. They say that marriage is a blessing and a gift from God and that women should not delay it.
What do you think of Venita's advice? Do you agree or disagree with her?
Today, I want to share something that has been trending on social media lately. You guessed it, it's the controversial advice that BBNaija star Venita gave to women recently.
If you don't know who Venita is, she is a former housemate of the popular reality TV show Big Brother Naija. She is also an actress, model and entrepreneur. She has two beautiful kids, and she is currently divorced from her ex-husband.
She was married to Terna Tarka for 4 years. She stated in a May interview with Punch in 2021 that leaving her husband was one of the toughest decisions she had made and that she was grateful for her support system.
Venita recently shared her opinion on marriage and relationships. She said that women should not rush into marriage before they are 28 years old. She said that women should focus on their careers, education and personal growth before settling down with a man.
Venita has really emphasized the importance of enjoying one's youth and gaining diverse life experiences before getting married.
She stated: "Don't marry young o! Don't go and do 'I'm doing high school sweetheart. We die here.' Just be young! Enjoy your life. When you're tired, get married."
The mother of two highlighted her position, particularly for her daughter, saying, "If my daughter approaches me, as long as she's not, I swear to God, not up to 28, we can rock with it. Anything below 28, please no." According to Venita, ladies ought to enjoy their youth before getting tied down by marriage. Venita said this during an interview.
She also said that women should not be pressured by society or family to get married at a young age. She said that women should be independent and self-reliant before they commit to a lifelong partnership. She said that marriage is not a bed of roses and that women should be prepared for the challenges and sacrifices that come with it.
The reality star Venita has emphasized the need for individuals to discover themselves fully before committing to marriage. She acknowledged that while some people might be mature at a younger age, it's crucial to explore various aspects of life to make informed decisions about marriage.
"Don't get me wrong, there are people who are mature, oh. But you need to try different things in life, different experiences, to be sure of okay, I want to be stuck here. Because it's handcuff, you're there," Venita explained.
Sharing her own experience, Venita, who is legally divorced, provided insight into the challenges of long-term commitment. She suggested that couples should consider separate yet connected rooms, to help maintain independence and avoid potential conflicts.
Venita's advice has sparked a lot of reactions from people online. Some people agree with her and say that she is speaking from experience and wisdom. They say that Venita is empowering women to make their own choices and live their best lives.
Others disagree with her and say that she is misleading women and discouraging them from getting married. They say that Venita is bitter and unhappy because of her failed marriage. They say that marriage is a blessing and a gift from God and that women should not delay it.
What do you think of Venita's advice? Do you agree or disagree with her?
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